Giving Back Generation“The greatest lesson I’ve learned is it’s not all about me,” she started. “When I am in some kind of distressful moment, I remove myself out of it and just say that person had stuff that they were dealing with. That’s why I feel hurt or that’s why I feel this way. It actually isn’t always about me. And I shouldn’t take a lot of things personally, especially in my line of work.
I should take it with a grain of salt, and I just feel like reminding myself that, you know, the world is such a big place, and you think sometimes the littlest things in your life, you think they will ruin us but in reality, it’s like, no. Sometimes it’s not about you. You’ve got to love people the way you love people.”Alyssa Bailey is the senior news and strategy editor at ELLE.com, where she oversees coverage of celebrities and royals .