5 Ways to Survive the Holidays if You're a Scrooge

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Reach out, be flexible about travel, let yourself feel sad, and set boundaries

, even if it’s not something you plan on doing the rest of the year. Sign up to visit residents at a local nursing home, bake cookies for first-responders, adopt a kitten, or serve food at a homeless shelter. You’ll get to socialize, and whoever you’re helping will be grateful for the company—a win-win from any angle.Lots of people struggle with the holidays because of strained family relationships.

If you’re nervous your guests will bring up a thorny personal issue, address it directly, immediately after arriving. You might say, “Todd and I broke up. It’s been really hard. I would appreciate if we could not talk about it, because I really want to enjoy being here with all of you,” Beachkofsky suggests. “It sounds scary, but if you say it one time, and if those people are even a little reasonable, they won’t bring up the thing you’re asking them not to talk about.

It can also be helpful to find ways of honoring the person—or people—you’re mourning. Did you share a special tradition, like always going to see the Trans-Siberian Orchestra together or making popcorn garland for the tree? “Find a way to incorporate that into the season,” says Steffani Wooley, a licensed professional counselor based in Texas. Or make a special ornament or photo collage that reminds you of your loved one. “You could even set a place at the table to remember them,” she says.

 

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It's called CHRISTmas.

I talk to old people who spend Christmas alone. Belive me they are proud, but actually. Its not a way to spend that day.

Let's not conflate rejection of rabid consumerism and fictional fairy tales with being a 'scrooge'. Many people enjoy the spirit of the season without the need for egotistical competition... That's actually what it's supposed to be about 👀

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What has being a Scrooge got to do with it You just may not have the money or the inclination! Why shame people...

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I’m actually grateful I don’t have to spend any time with my backstabbing hypocrite family members or worse my ex in law family. What a nightmare. Used to travel for hours to see these ungrateful petty dysfunctional phonies. No more. 🥂

tip 1: don’t be a grinch and enjoy things

Christmas season....

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